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Monday, October 25, 2010

Putting an End to Arguing and Backtalk


Does it ever seem like children carry around a little book called, “Arguing for Fun and Profit?” To put an end to this draining behavior, experiment with repeating the same loving Love and Logic “one-liner,” regardless of what your child says. The key, of course, is to maintain a soft, empathetic tone of voice. Listed below are some examples:

“I love you too much to argue.”
“Probably so.”
“I know.”
“I bet it feels that way.”
“What do you think you’re going to do?”
“What did I say?”
“I don’t know. What do you think?”
“There’s no time for making kitten britches.” (Some of the most effective one-liners are really strange!)

From the experts of Love and Logic
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2 comments:

  1. Here's a youtube video link that discusses and practices this technique of ending arguing!
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I0nTTkHCTVc&feature=related&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1

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  2. I just found your blog this afternoon! Very well done :)

    Janene

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